Dearest CJ, Thank you for challenging thinking around this sphere of how to define and relate to love and one another. Trying to distinguish between value-reward (transactional) love, and transcendent love, are we splitting hairs or atoms? Is Love a life force, or an intention? Certainly both, but what difference does it make when i see myself as primarily a force of love? My human experience is limited in understanding what indeed is of true value or utility to me. Love as a tool limits is transcendent and co-creative capacity. Loving inward, outward, and onward, toward conscious evolution, characterised by ever widening circles of cooperation, or Love.