the poor woman, the poor ugly woman, the poor, ugly elderly woman. Really, it is ridiculous. So ridiculous that nothing about it is logical. We must see these ‘realities’ as consequences of a fucked up economic system. Or, can we just see that when indeed we give, it is because we have, and therefore to have, we give. This is how economies worked before money. So the monetary system has an inherent design flaw. Let’s redesign to love, and to heal. And if that is selfish motivation to have love and be healed, so fucking be it.